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Warning signs a child is being groomed online
Grooming is how an abuser or trafficker builds a relationship and trust with a child to lower their defenses. It can happen online in hours or over months.
Signs to watch for
- Secretive device use or sudden new accounts
- Gifts, money, or game currency from someone new
- An “older friend” who tells the child to keep things secret
- Mood changes, withdrawal, or anxiety after being online
- Requests to move conversations to private apps
What helps
Stay curious, not punishing. Ask open questions, know the apps your child uses, and agree on what to do if something feels wrong. If you suspect a crime, report to the NCMEC CyberTipline, and call 911 if there is immediate danger.
Safety is built before the crisis
Pick your part and see it through. Prevention works when people follow through.