Toolkit
Warning signs
One sign alone does not prove anything. A cluster of signs, or a sudden change, deserves a calm conversation and, if needed, a report.
Online grooming & sextortion
Signs a child may be targeted
- New online “friend” who showers them with attention or gifts
- Asks to move to a private or disappearing-message app
- Secrecy about devices, quick screen-hiding, new accounts
- Distress after getting messages; avoiding devices or being glued to them
- Sudden requests for money, gift cards, or payment apps
- Withdrawal, anxiety, trouble sleeping, or hopelessness
Trafficking
Signs someone may be trafficked
- Older boyfriend/girlfriend or “friend” controlling their time and phone
- New expensive items, hotel keys, or cash with no explanation
- Not in control of ID, money, or travel; scripted answers
- Signs of fear, injury, or being watched; reluctant to speak alone
- Frequent unexplained absences or running away
- Works long hours with little pay and cannot leave a job
Next steps
What to do
Stay calm, listen, and don’t confront the suspected trafficker. Call 911 if there is immediate danger. Contact the National Human Trafficking Hotline (1-888-373-7888, or text 233733). For online exploitation, report to the NCMEC CyberTipline.
Safety is built before the crisis
Pick your part and see it through. Prevention works when people follow through.