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Hacked or taken-over account: the response playbook

How to regain control of a child’s account, check what the intruder saw, and prevent a repeat.

Use this when
A child’s account is posting things they did not post, messaging strangers, or they are locked out.
For
Parents
Time
10 minutes
Last reviewed
November 14, 2026

1 Phase 1 of 6 · Prepare

Prepare

Cheap steps that make recovery easy.

  • Use a password manager and a unique password for every account.
  • Turn on two-step verification, ideally an authenticator app rather than text message.
  • Keep recovery email and phone numbers current and under a parent’s control.
  • Write down each child’s important accounts, so you know what to secure.

2 Phase 2 of 6 · Spot it

Spot it

Check the signs before assuming the worst.

  • Unknown logins, locations or devices in the account’s security page.
  • Posts or messages your child did not send.
  • Password reset emails your child did not request.
  • Friends say they got strange links from the account.

A hacked account is sometimes the first step of sextortion or impersonation. Ask your child whether anyone is also threatening them.

3 Phase 3 of 6 · Contain

Contain

Cut off the intruder.

  1. From a device you trust, change the password. If you are locked out, use the platform’s account recovery.
  2. Sign out of all other sessions and devices.
  3. Turn on two-step verification right away.
  4. Change the password on the email linked to the account, since that is the key to every other account.

4 Phase 4 of 6 · Clean up

Clean up

Find out what was touched and remove what the intruder left behind.

  • Review connected apps and revoke any you do not recognize.
  • Check forwarding rules and recovery details on email.
  • Remove unknown devices.
  • Run a security scan on the device used to log in.
  • Tell friends not to click strange links from the account.
  • Report to the platform, and to the FTC (reportfraud.ftc.gov) or police if money or identity is involved.

5 Phase 5 of 6 · Recover

Recover

Regain trust, not just access.

Do
  • Reassure your child that being hacked happens to experts too.
  • Help them post a short note that the account was compromised, if needed.
  • Watch for follow-up threats or impersonation for the next few weeks.

6 Phase 6 of 6 · Learn

Learn

Find the root cause.

  1. Ask how it likely happened: reused password, a phishing link, a shared device.
  2. Fix that cause.
  3. Update your family plan and password manager.

Awareness Is Prevention is a prevention and education nonprofit, not a crisis line, law firm or law enforcement agency. This is general guidance, not legal or medical advice. In an emergency call 911.

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